Amy Chua’s parenting methodology can create many problems for young children that they carry into adulthood.
|Subject||Early childhood development||Pages||3||Style||APA|
In the books entitled The Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, Amy Chua advocates for the idea of parents hovering around their children, as the best method of parenting. Chua argues that rigorous, demanding parenting method, also known as overparenting or tiger parenting, results in more highly accomplished kids. Even though Chua supports this form of parenting, its negative effects on the youth negates the justification that Chua presents for it. This paper champions the thesis that overparenting is associated with many youth problems including critical family environment, influencing children into adopting overparenting style when they become parents, and negatively impacting the academic achievement and wellbeing of college students. This paper justifies this argument in the subsequent paragraphs.
Overparenting results in critical family environment. The outcomes of the study conducted on the association between overparenting and critical family environment and child problems revealed that tiger parenting results in crucial family setting where both parents and their juvenile, adult children hold limited positive attitudes toward one another (Segrin et al. 477). This parenting method leads to a situation in which the child and the parent criticize each other and view one another with disdain, which in turn widens the gap between then. For instance, the outcomes of the study showed that the young adults experience problems getting along with their parents, as they find their control, hovering, and anxious parenting repulsive (Segrin et al. 477). As such, this method of parenting should be eliminated to prevent the establishment of critical family environment and its negative impacts.
Tiger-parenting influences children into adopting the rigorous, demanding method of parenting when they become adults or parents. Early parent method bears a significant impact on the future parenting style including parenting behavior, transition into parenthood, and child and parental adaptation (Scharf and Rousseau 203). Therefore, when parents bring up their children under tiger parenting technique, such children will transform into tiger parents in the future. To justify this claim, the study executed by Scharf and Rousseau revealed that subjecting a child to overparenting results in such a child adopting this form of parenting when he or she becomes a parent in the future (207). As such, there is a significant need for eradicating this harmful form of parenting in order to prevent children from employing it in the future.
Rigorous, demanding parenting technique negatively affects the academic accomplishment and wellbeing of college students. Segrin et al. established that young adults, who are subjected to tiger parenting, respond to issues with self, parents, and schools via withdrawal (477). As such, this outcome reveals that overparenting impacts the psychological wellbeing of children when it comes to addressing issues in an amicable manner. In a different study, the outcome showed that intrusive parenting results in children being excessively critical of themselves, which in turn result in maladaptive perfectionism that leads to elevated levels of anxiety and depression (Cha par. 6). When it comes to accomplishing the academic goals, college students with helicopter or tiger parents have been established to experience problems believing in their own potentials (Cha par. 11). This method of parenting puts excessive pressure on the child in relation to the level of academic performance expected of him or her, thereby resulting into poor academic outcomes.
In conclusion, overparenting exposes the youths to several problems including negatively impacting their wellbeing and academic achievement of college students, influencing kids into being tiger parents when they grow up, and critical family environment. Considering the negative impacts of overparenting on the youth or children, adequate measures should be embraced to ensure that this form of parenting is eradicated from the society.
Cha E. Ariana. “Your Perfectionist Parenting Style May Be Detrimental to Your Child” Washington Post (June 27, 2016).
Segrin Chris, Givertz Michelle, Swaitkowski Paulina and Montgomery Neil. “Overparenting is Associated with Child Problems and a Critical Family Environment” J Child Fam Stud 24 (2015):470–479
Scharf Miri and Rousseau Sophie. “‘One Day I Will Make a Good Parent’: On The Relationship
Between Overparenting and Young Adults’ Early Parenting Representations”. Adult Dev 24 (2017):199–209